男人。女人

与一位男性好友聊了一个下午，当话题围绕在两性关系时；我们异口同声地认同，也为本身的立场各持其见。。

犹记得一年多前，音乐才子吴克群发表了一首让我印象深刻的作品。由许茹芸与阿穆隆诠释，娓娓道出男人与女人之间的故事。

副歌为：
“男人，男人，多希望你是好人，多希望用你的真，让我不必再心疼。”
“女人，女人，我答应做个好人，我答应用我一生，来换你的快乐一生。”

好友结束了第四段恋情。
我：是否觉得愧疚？（对于四个前女友）
他：不是每一个都有。这一个并不会很愧疚。
我：为什么？
（了解了故事的来龙去脉，我也略知一二。。）

好人的定义在哪里？我能说好友不是好人吗？客观地说，当然不。
然而，就像以上的歌词，女人总是感叹男人不是好人，无法真心真意去珍惜女人。
男人却给了个承诺，会让女人快乐一生。

两性关系永远是复杂的。
或许好友的恋爱经验丰富，他坦然地与我分享了男人如何看待女人，种种如果找的人生伴侣，他所会顾虑到的因素。从中，有了少许的领悟和同感。。

The people around me...

Recently, quite happenings actually..
In a sudden, so much changes on the people around me,they are blessed,surprised,shocked,disappointed,confused..

She,
who is the luckiest lady among my friends..be the first one to get married among all my uni friends. Her life later would be much envied by many many gals..
So so hangfuk le...

She,
once i believed she can be the one whom I can close with.I found out something which she was hiding behind me. I treated her sincerely all the while.Maybe I couldn't judge her in such certain circumstance since my judgement on her before this was: nice, sincere and friendly. I shouldn't have doubt on her personality,right? However, people may change,due to the time..environment..I hope she isn't.Better don't.Sign! Why it's so hard to find someone who can be trusted? Everyone is wearing the mask, protecting ownself..fake??

He,
who is someone disturbing me all the while.He doesn't do much bad things on me.I am the one who make myself struggling in the dilemma.Really don't know how to escape from this kind of stupid thinking.Questioning myself, helpless.Nobody can help me too, it all depends on myself actually.

He,
who is someone confusing me. If he is someone else, I believe he can be someone who i can trust on in my working life.Too bad, he isn't.How I wish I have the magic to do characteristic swapping,haha!!

Well, working life is not like studying life. The people around us are totally different. You would never know who is the one treat you sincerely or who is the one stabbing you behind.Frankly to say,I feel unsecured and..scare..

Today..

I am....HAPPY today!!!
Feel fresh~
No reasons,that's why I am wondering,haha~

Hairstyle

A lot of ppl were shocked to see my new hairstyle early of this month.
On the 1st day of my working day with this pretty short new hairstyle, I was nervous on keep asking the opinions. This hairstyle was suggested by the hairstylist of another hair salon which is not that one I visit all the while.And, I left my hair rest for 1 week before coloured.

Maybe my hair is too dark, maybe I was not very good in styling it( too wet look on that day),maybe the first day people saw me in short hair after had been having long hair for years and not used to it...I received bad comments more than the good one.

The worst was,someone who was too much,giving me a very big reaction plus strings of hurting words.
Do I really looked so bad till you feel want to vomit when you were drinking water?
Annoying->on this bad guy!

暧昧

杨丞琳的成名曲《暧昧》歌词中唱着：“暧昧让人受尽委屈，找不到相爱的证据”
其实并不然，我倒觉得暧昧的时候是甜甜的。。
友达以上，恋人未满的关系无需任何责任，约束，付出。。少了麻烦。。
暧昧，就在似有似无之间，更添加了一些些刺激，摸不着头脑时，心却如小鹿乱撞。。
哈哈哈，好像很有经验的样子？:p

离别是为了重聚

即使知道会有这么一天，可是没想到那么快。。

踏入社会工作的第一天，Agnes带着懵懵懂懂的我，熟悉一下工作环境。可能频率相同，我们特别投缘，很快就有谈不完的话题。一路来，每一个工作天，还好有她与我作伴。身为同事，我们互相倾诉老板的恶行，讨论着工作上琐琐碎碎的事物。身为朋友，当我无助，烦恼的时候，她一直给予我指导和关怀。我曾经在她面前崩溃大哭，把掩饰的心情不露痕迹地摊开于她的面前。

去年的五月，公司还安排我们一同到日本受训。虽然她只呆一个月，可是我们一起经历了很多，渡过很多快乐又难忘的日子。。
虽说每个人都有自己要走的路，可是离别难免会感伤。尤其是突然的消息，我真的接受不来。对于老板的恶行，她采取了基于保护自己的行动。事情揭发了，是时候还公道了。终于，公司决定让她走，尽早离开这个横行霸道的限制区。就连她自己，也是在今天得到结论，离开公司。当大家还在讶异之时，已经到了放工时间，她也仓促地走了，根本没有什么道别或欢送会。还好，我抓紧时刻，与她边走边谈，承诺着下一次的聚会。

离别时为了重聚，这句话一点也没错。往另一个方面想，她终于脱离了苦海，走向她应走的方向。
祝福她。。

Back to the past...

I should have been lying on the bed,closed my eyes...and ended up today by lots of dreams.
Wait, i feel like writing something here..

If I got time machine,went back to the past..how would it be?
Time flies,till unbelievable..till unacceptable..till uncontrollable...
It has been 3-6-0!!
I know myself well,am still pretending..I don't feel I am challenging it,sometimes.
But, I have to protect myself, to avoid those unwanted problems and undescribable pain.

Opps...so many "un"s for me..it signs,I refuse to unveil everything..

Ideas to Die

As usual,planned to make Milo for my breakfast before going to work.
"PIANG~!"
I dropped my tea spoon and it has been broken! :((
This is one of my presents from Mingming,so sad....

It's a bad sign.
I had a bad day today.The dog barked on me by using ridiculous and unreasonable reason!

Ideas for life?
NO! It's Ideas to Die!

我的名字組合

I got this link from my cousin's blog.
神机妙算
Quite accurate in the definition of my characteristic from my chinese name,hahaha...

整體命格
運勢一生順遂，身邊也不斷會出現貴人照顧，女生比男生更好命！

個性分析
內在想法(女)
*頭腦反應快，模仿學習力強
*個性主動積極，但也急性子
*在不如自己意時會搞小團體，或者做一些挑撥的事
*性格比較激烈急躁，是個耐心不足的女孩子
*對自己要求比較嚴格，在團隊中也不甘願認輸，比較好強

外在行動(女)
*好就好不好就不好，個性非常阿莎力，絕不龜毛
*相信自己人，保護自己人，有時跟大姐頭一樣
*有話直說，不喜歡拐彎抹角
*個性活潑好相處，喜歡交朋友
*脾氣太過火爆，被惹毛則不留情面

感情運(女)
*遇到喜歡的對象只會遠遠欣賞，所以常常錯失好的姻緣
*對於感情外冷內熱，遇到熱烈追求的男生會裝冷而嚇跑對方
*很需要被呵護、寵愛，喜歡被放在手上疼的感覺
*適合早婚，本身容易因為年紀的增長而看淡感情終而不婚
*對於感情不會太執著，保持著隨緣的態度

工作運
對於事業是有企圖心的，但會低調的進行工作計劃，時機成熟時才會讓旁人得知。

財運
財運很旺，只要有信心，勇於追求、不貪心，就可賺大錢。唯要注意口舌災易招破財。

Get to know yourself better...

Did this quiz through one of Hanni's post..
Dear friends,does this quiz conclude me..accurate?
You may try too..tell me the answer :D
Take the quiz...

Your view on yourself:

You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:

You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education

You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.

What are you most afraid of:

You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:

You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.